I can (sort of) take care of myself
I know a lot of people say marriage is hard and while I don’t want to discount that, it’s also not my experience. I don’t find marriage itself difficult. The only difficult part is unlearning all the crap you were told about how your marriage is “supposed to” look.
I wrote about one aspect of that––taking care of each other––for Reckon South. A marriage, sex, and family therapist I know says my advice is spot on, so I’m feeling validated.
Give it a read. I hope it helps and inspires you!